The Dating Club.
A small, vetted membership of serious people. Every member is interviewed before they join, and every introduction is made by hand.
Apply for membershipFewer introductions. Much better ones.
Interviewed, verified, and never published
Membership is not a subscription to a database. It is an arrangement with two people who know you, know the network, and take responsibility for who they put in front of you.
We would rather make you three introductions in a year that matter than thirty that do not.
A personal intake
An hour with both of us before anything else happens.
Verified members only
Identity, marital status and references checked before acceptance.
Hand-made introductions
Told about each other first. Never a surprise, never a line-up.
Members-only gatherings
Dinners and listening evenings in Kampala, capped at a sensible size.
Someone to call
Debrief after every introduction. We adjust as we learn you.
How it works.
Apply
The form below. Fifteen minutes, and the more honest it is the faster this goes.
Vetting
We verify, we call your references, and we meet you. Five working days, usually.
Payment
If you are accepted we send a private payment link. Nothing is charged before that.
Introductions
We start looking. You hear from us when there is someone worth hearing about.
Membership questions.
Dating Club
What does membership cost?
Fees are shared privately with applicants who are accepted, because they depend on the level of search involved. Nothing is charged before you are accepted and nothing is charged if we decline.
How long does vetting take?
Usually five working days from a complete application. If we need to speak to your references it can take a little longer, and we will keep you posted either way.
What if you decline me?
You will hear from us, courteously and by name, and your details are deleted on request. A decline is usually about fit or timing rather than anything about you being wrong.
Will anyone see my profile?
No. Nothing is published anywhere. A prospective introduction is told about you in conversation, only after you have agreed to it.
Can I pause my membership?
Yes. Tell us and we stop introductions until you say otherwise. Time paused is added to the end of your term.
Tell us about yourself.
Applying costs nothing and commits you to nothing. We reply to every application, including the ones we decline.
Not sure the Club is the right door?
Book an hour with us first. We will tell you plainly whether membership would help — or whether something else would.
Schedule a consultation